Sorry！being so rude！首先以一个和美白人结婚三年经验来说，第一个39了还和父母住一起，complete a loser！第二个年龄大你一些，在大学教书貌似也是一个稳定的工作你不妨先交往一下然后来美国看一下他的生活在决定要不要跟他结婚。
I am 38, a single mother of 11-year-old son.I am a student in college, and I prefer to well educated gentleman. Recently I met two guys. one is 39, living with his mother, having a job not career. another is 53, Master, working as professor in college, also working in government too. Both of them never marry no kids. So which guy I should go for? I really need advice from sisters in here. Thank you very much.
Is there anybody want to say something? Thank you.
跟着自己心走吧！不要看外在条件什么的， 我当时认识老公的时候他不过国内教书的，我看重的是人不是地位金钱什么的， 过了那么多年我可以说我觉得我们过得还不搓， 我04年来美国不久就中风了， 到现在基本没工作过， 都是他养我还有这个家我们还有个不到3岁的小姑娘。如果你现在就纯目的找一个， 将来也不一定幸福啊！
the one who is 53 years old is better